I’m Also Not Drinking Anymore … Are the Two Decisions Connected? — A few weeks ago, my partner and I decided we’d quit drinking. He suggested it one day, mentioning that he just didn’t need the calories and it would be the easiest thing to cut out of his life. He used to drink a LOT — something like a bottle of…

It’s a trick you may have learned already but forgotten — OK, ladies, tell me if this sounds familiar … (you’re welcome to read this, guys, but I know this secret only from a woman’s point of view). You’re in bed with your guy, you’ve had a long, tiring day, and you can’t wait to fall asleep and be dead to…

I’m focusing on BE-ing rather than DO-ing … wanna join me? — I’m so excited about my NEW LIFE! I actually started it yesterday, but it’s off to a slow new-life start, so I’m hoping it’ll really get off the ground TOMORROW. I’ve arranged to work half-days at my regular job for the rest of the year, so I can focus on…

Sex has never been better, but I sure wish I had my 20-year-old body to enjoy this lusty passion — Let’s just say I’ve had some clunker relationships along the way. One abuser, one alcoholic, one bed-wetter … I’ve had a lot of sex with a lot of men in the past 40-some years. Some sex was pretty good; some was pretty awful. The desires and juices would still arise…