Whenever you have a sexual thought or a ‘tingle,’ you have to act on it

Ithink I started making rules for myself when a book called “The Rules,” by Ellen Fein, came out. It was a dating handbook published in 1995. Since then, a whole series of “rules” books has been written — online dating rules, rules for marriage, the complete rules, and all the…

I’m Also Not Drinking Anymore … Are the Two Decisions Connected?

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A few weeks ago, my partner and I decided we’d quit drinking. He suggested it one day, mentioning that he just didn’t need the calories and it would be the easiest thing to cut out of his life.

He used to drink a LOT — something like a bottle of…

It’s a trick you may have learned already but forgotten

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OK, ladies, tell me if this sounds familiar … (you’re welcome to read this, guys, but I know this secret only from a woman’s point of view). You’re in bed with your guy, you’ve had a long, tiring day, and you can’t wait to fall asleep and be dead to…

Sex has never been better, but I sure wish I had my 20-year-old body to enjoy this lusty passion

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Let’s just say I’ve had some clunker relationships along the way. One abuser, one alcoholic, one bed-wetter …

I’ve had a lot of sex with a lot of men in the past 40-some years. Some sex was pretty good; some was pretty awful.

The desires and juices would still arise…

Alice Buchanan

Wandering soul who loves to share and learn and love.

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